Blue Lace Agate is the stone to give you that sense of calm serenity. With all of the calming energies in these crystals you can use to mediate and help a messy mind. Blue Lace Agate can take away the negative headspace and replace it with the softest peace. You can also use the soothing vibrations that will make you drift off into peaceful sleep. If you have tension in the home you can place Blue Lace Agate in common speaking areas to help calm that area down.

If you struggle with BPD or any other mental illness similar, this might just be the crystal for you,  Blue Lace Agate can help you to understand what you need to communicate. By activating your throat chakra Blue Lace Agate will help you to say what you can't seem to say in a way that's positive for everyone around. This crystal allows forgiveness around you as well, so when the rage seeps out it can be sealed with the calming vibrations with Blue Lace Agate.   

Fun Fact: Blue Lace Agate is created by slow moving lava that slowly settles over time, which takes millions of years. They say everything good in life takes time but in this case it's really worth the time it takes.